Big Love
Saturday, July 29th, 2006On several occasions, I had the chance to watch a very popular HBO series called "Big Love." Basically, it’s describing a simple yet not so simple Mormon household. The story is simple in a sense that each member of the family is very much in par with the rest of the world. They go about with their daily activities, troubles, and emotional challenges.
The not so simple portion is the relationship between the husband and his wives. Yes, wives. Boy… would all men love to hear this statement~ The realistic portion of this series lies in its ability to depict the complex emotional , monetary, and positional struggles among the wives and the husband. But then again, how would *I* know if it’s realistic or not? In any case, it looks plausible.
I am often curious and wonder whether such love (from the husband) is unequivocally the same across each of his beloved wives? Is it even possible to do something like this? Equally, would the wives all share the same vision as the husband and act as ONE? To me, LOVE, whether big or small is a singular term, seldom generally applied, and never shared. Did this family(and like many other fundamentalist Mormon families), just created a new level of equilibrium, where all forces of nature are balanced and harmonious even with multiple loved ones? or I am just a small love person who, like the frog sitting at the bottom of the well, thinking the sky(love) is just that small??
